So a young fertile woman was his best bet. This is, of course, regarding those who have been honest enough to disclose details about their past. oh,stacy,you live and learn.bigger fish too fry. In fact, I see more women who regret marrying young than I see women regret marrying in their 30s. You really want to marry miss double penetration? We have all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God. As you are starting to realize, it isnt worth holding over someones head, especially when it is the woman you love. Idc what you say. I understand some of your arguements. As for Step your game up! Sex shouldnt be a competition. She can probably just walk up to a man and say Wanna fuck me? and the first man she approaches will say yes (or at least one in the first three men). FloralHybrid. She is 30. You stated How you view intimacy, and love, and sex matters. well what holds more weight, their current view or their past views? The man may never know that these men were chosen by her respectively and a mutual feeling of attachment existed if he only looks at the number and views the wild party scene when none may have existed. and dont forget life is a stinky bitch, you call your friend in your house and he happened to be one of your wifes exes. Being sojudgmentalcan cause anyone to miss on on great things. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Enter your email below to join the VIP list. If I decide to marry, it will be a woman with confidence, character, and class, and not a slut. Not saying that is ok and right, just pointing that out. This method only works Women have stooped down to men and act like pigs now. Id like to think that we live in a liberated, sex-positive society where people understand that people have sex and ITS A HUMAN THING, not only a man-thing or a woman-thing. Where is this done? Just continue to pour love into her and your relationship and you will continue to see things improve. I went through years thinking that sex was it and when I was in a relationship I was faithful and from what Ive heard one of the best girlfriends theyve had. umm doing your kegels will fix that and also not true unless the promiscuous lady in question is having babies left and right. By his personality it doesn seem that he is a virgin either. The willingness to speak truth and the bravery to acknowledge it is paramount. total. Macho-ism still exists. I would just say that the specific number wasnt the real issue in your case. Obviously the more people you sleep with the higher your possibility of having an std are. That scares me more than anything else. Lmao!!! The fact that Kim Kardashian is a role model for women is sickening. Hoe Stroll is defined as a period of time where a woman is much more promiscuous than she has ever been or will be again. love you back! I will talk about what I feel is best, when it comes to sex and being promiscuous versus waiting. If someone girl or guy has cheated before they will probably do it again and that is not worth risking. Because they are unable to control their own desires, delayed gratification is a component of intelligence and success. Every man has to question how many men she slept with and isolate her and own her so she wont sleep around. You dont think there are alpha women out there? Its an individual thing as to how they perceive themselves. Its more like rape in nature than sex but the female does not sleep aroundstudy this if you must knowand God says so too! Where to begin Required fields are marked *. Couple days later it turned to 9. Either way I think all women when put in the right relationship (and have taken time to heal & love themselves) are capable of operating as the best women they can be. It is the fact that you will hold this over someones head forever that I feel could use some rethinking. Dont get mad if needs/wants change. This is a trite platitude devoid of meaning. Sheila, when you have a chance, give a listen to Christopher Hitchens, or Sam Harris on YouTube. The fact remains that the women with the lowest divorce rate in our liberal Western culture (not an alien culture or religion) are those who are more educated, higher income earners and marry later. Inability to cope with stress, lack of problem solving skills, and an unwillingness to compromise would be the most likely culprits in such a situation. So when they say save yourself for the right one remember the word ONE u can say girl see whats out there see what u like live life but remember u are not only keeping apart of that person u sleep with in you, you are also exposing that person to your future kids and shaming your future spouses bloodline stop trying to justify being a hoe. Or cheated or whatever. I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. And possessive so I stopped having sex with them. I like her a lot cause she is smart, funny, outgoing, pretty, and we just have the exact same sense of humor and get along better than I do with almost anyone in my life as we're really similar people. irrelevance of your girlfriend/wifes number of sexual partners is I agree that you should not settle, and that finding someone you connect with and are compatible with is obtainable (as well as one of the keys to a great relationship). Of course, that was music to my earsbut, I am very realistic and pragmatic. Theres a dirty shaming name for women whove had volumes of sex but only recently has there been a label for men that also have many sexual experiences with many partners. And yeah I'm definitely better than any of the other guys I've heard she's been with. Why do you like her? Hate to say it our race puts more thought into this subject than any other. The former is a wife prospect. Hi Puppycat. Seemed to be more interesting than knowing the troubled young girls/teenager/woman. It A pedophile cant make a mistake. You, as a woman, are obviously free to care (or not) how many previous partners your man has been with. My opinion on how many people is too many: Since people Ive been involved with both chaste and promiscuous women. All I am saying is that core values and principles change. Beauty fades, parts get old. I will not look down upon people who do not agree with this, I just genuinely feel that they may not be taking the best approach. According to studies the chance of divorce strongly correlates Continue Reading Lawrence C. FinTech Enthusiast, Expert Investor, Finance at Masterworks Updated Thu I completely understand where you are coming from and I do believe in discussing a persons past. I myself agree with not judging a future mate depending solely on the number of past partners. I mean really whos want to marry a woman that a lot of guys have allready seen whats meant to be special between you too..really? or nope that guys never gonna get in me, but ill play him and take his money till something better comes along tho.why not ey ?? This is only my input on the subject as I have been tackling this topic for weeks now and I am open to everybody's opinion. Great article. considerations including self-worth, that daddy used to go on long And there you have it. (if its true). No track record of long-term relationships, combined with promiscuous behaviour, is always a bad sign, regardless of philosophy. Peace, I wish I could chat with you Boa. Also, I do not believe in the double standard! I agree. Men are equally free as you to care (or not) how many partners their woman has been with. Since a lot of people have a problem with the objectification of women lets view her as a human woman again. There is nothing wrong with your disagreement, but they way you go about it is very negative and very unnecessary. I cannot think of any psychologist orNeurologistwho would argue that humans actions have no weight on themselves or their behavior let alone mental health. And as a quick aside, we both know that if a man and a women who are equally attractive enter a bar and make a bet as to who can get laid first, the woman will always win. Does my ex-gf and her bf want a thruple with me? As far as Im concerned, he is the only man I can get sexually aroused by. it is also about the fact that many men are with women they love but have no idea how she may have been in her past sexually. And its not just about the numbers. I hit the cutoff line at 5 MAX. Yes there is a higher possibility of STDs but a woman could have only been with 2 men and be infected vs. the woman who had over 30 and is still disease free. Oh, you gave all your goods outwhen I didnt but I should be accepting of that? In fact, you should give yourself time to grieve the sin (Ecclesiastes 3:4; 2 Corinthians 7:10). Lol wow, do you realize there is a difference between wanting a girl that has been around versus not judging a girl that has been around. Your notions of beta this and slut that are so divorced from reality where do I begin. It benefits to see the bigger picture and all angles of a situation. I definitely would not marry a woman who has slept around a lot. That is why at the very beginning I say I think it is best for people to wait with sex. She doesn't feel that she should have to settle down, and she thinks it's unfair that other women degrade her for this. Therefore I believe a woman should be more selective in who she chooses. That she should Very good point, I may have to edit the post and throw that in somewhere : ). Furthermore for both sex d rare and tear is evident. Education can do wonders! Is she a hoe or as you said on a hoe stroll? If she shows herself to be dysfunctional and unable to maintain a healthy relationship, then again walk away. Past promiscuity is not what causes a marriage to fail in my opinion. 70% of divorces are initiated by women because of that reason, so Im curious to know exactly what you attribute the divorce rate to? ) I believe yours is as well. As you have experienced it is the baggage, the fact that many people have not healed from their past before entering a new relationship. And, remember, Neighbor, even one sex act outside of or before marriage is considered promiscuous and, definitely sinful for males or females in His eyes. https://psychcentral.com/lib/2012/the-myth-of-the-high-rate-of-divorce/all/1/ for college educated women who marry after the age of 25 and have established an independent source of income, the divorce rate is only 20 percent! In fact, white middle-class college-educated women in their twenties are widely recognized by researchers to have more sex partners than any other group of women; the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth reports that women in these three categories (of race, income and education) have the highest proportions of four or more partners over their lifetimes (39).https://karmak.org/archive/2002/10/portrait.html. And she is ten times prettier with larger breasts and better complected, better hair, better teeth, more intelligent, etc His wife would feel intimidated and feel she can not compete especially if the other woman dumped him and he had been in love with her. By your logic she could look at you and say wow what a loser he's only ever had one person interested in him. whether or not she has a(n) std(s)) is very important concerning the number of partners that she's had but if a woman tells a man that she's slept with 3 men and neglects to add the 0 at the end of that, she's being dishonest and that violates the principle of another post that you made (4 keys to starting and maintaining a successful relationship) previously. Men and women are different. There is no double standard. I would rather date a Virgin. That would make you the asshole. When trading up becomes so easy in society who has the time to work on whatever issues they have. The fluids can be washed off easily by men, however the mans fluids or remnants of it can remain inside the woman for years before it can leave her system. How do you think we feel? Maybe if you learn to use it, you wont have to ask other people to do your work for you. it. It taints your bloodline. A woman who doesn't want a short, fat, or socially awkward man can just come right out and say it, but a man is often shamed for being truthful about his preferences. I can see it now. If she does, thats okay! You can go on and on about how oh men are sluts!! But it seems like you want to get over those beliefs, because you recognize there is something wrong with them. Many times the stroll occurs in high school or college, but it varies for different women. Ill always get laid. It We all have issues, so we have no right to be so quick to judge, and look down on others for their perceived issue. They give birth. it depends on the vagina not the number of guys. In the last few years I have hurt her with my venting and myself deeply as well with the thought of it. Planned Parenthood business is booming. As does her likelihood of getting divorced. Yall remember the movie House Party.when Bernie Mac remembered ole boys wife at the dinner table.smh They use to call you jawbones.lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaao nahhhh.Ill pass on all that. contraception. When the male wants a woman with good morals and respects her body. In the words of Dr Dre. We all spout platitudes about what our beliefs are, and often, these can be idealized versions of who we wish we were. Her sexual promiscuity or lack there of does not control control his actions or level of respect. Peace. Itz never been ok for them. I just still strongly believe that this idea of letting that number dictate where the relationship can or will not go is not the best approach in life. There surely will be another at the Not sure if she is clued into how I've only had one sexual partner as again I am terrified to bring up this conversation about each of our amount of sexual partners. As a woman, if you are ashamed to reveal the number of partners you have had in your lifetimethen why should the male be ok with that? Exploring a little bit and being willing to learn can make you a better lover. Men are sure as hell trying to do it now! So many women who have waited seem to not be as open minded. But you would never have known looking at her. Fortunately for me he had an affair No, it can most certainly simply be about the actual number. I appreciated the honesty and had no problem with it. Sorry that I did not take the time to sift though all 240+ comments prior to posting my own. The general consensus is generally that some crazy bitch who spent a decade slutting around is not going to be that moral woman after she stops and you can't trust her to be. Even though men have the choice too without fame a lot of money a social status its a losing battle. Last I checked, its not easy finding a men to love whom you can then share your love of sex with. So they choose the wrong mate, get married, have children and are miserable. You have your opinions, and they are just that your opinion, and I have my opinion. And who wants to commit to an easy girl? I think we should always evaluate the individual for who they are right now. There is nothing worse than dating a women with weak will power! No one should be lied to in a relationship. Trust me, there are men married to or in a relationship with women they think has had very few sex partners, when in reality the numbers are much higher than he will ever know. HIV has an incubation period of 6 months before anything will show up on medical tests, or he or she could be the lucky one who doesnt have as strong of a reaction to it as most others do and therefore have no idea that they have HIV in the first place. He simply presented a good enough resume for her to push forward. Yet a man can have sex with 50 women and ejaculate in all of them and expect at least 50 lives in a year and knows damn well hes the father backed by 50 women also saying so! People are simply not willing to marry unless they are certain that the person they are marrying is compatible.. Make an effort to no longer throw it in her face, because that only makes it harder for her to be open and honest with you going forward. Dude dont date her you are judging her for her sexuality just leave the poor chick alone shes going to end up resenting you and feeling disgusted with herself because of your guilt trips and attempts to shame her for who she is. I feel if we allow ourselves to be more open, honest, and loving in our approach then we can see much better results. I do not believe I will continue with my girlfriend as I've found other options who do have problems like everybody else but however don't carry such a burden like my current girl. It has nothing to do with risks of STDs in my book, because, as you say, one can get tested. I am not a whore or a slut. We dont know what that woman may have been going through or her full reasons for her choices. I confronted her about it and she responded the number was 5. It shows you what not to do ever again.I am a very open minded person. A mess you gonna have these women out here single and lonely.. Lol hold up, I didnt write Why I go through his phone that was a guest blogger (OnlyOneHeaven.com) but I did write this article. When looking for information about dating someone with this girls' attributes, try to change the language. If a woman has been with multiple men and ashamed to tell the current man in her life, in my opinion that makes her dishonest. But I still love her ofcourse and missed her like crazy when I left, like nothing I ever felt before. 6. If your 30 and you had sex with 45 people, many issues that person will have from having sex with so many people. If they say they dont feel secure in the relationship, Wow! Maybe teach you to stop overthinking trivial things like her sexual history and maybe help you learn to enjoy being in the moment? So if you have a woman who has X amount of partners but have truly addressed her issues then I do not believe she will have a higher rate of divorce over the woman who has only had one partner but a slew of issues she has not properly addressed. All the pain caused by others will really be dumped on to her life long partner. And guess what? Now despite some of the accurate statements you made, the point is that women or people for that matter are not always the same person they once were. At the end of the day, its all about what works to pass on genes. She is still the same woman she was before she told you the number, the only difference is how you will now choose to process it and treat her. There is a strong correlation between stable marriage rate, and lack of sexual partners for the woman. You're young and these are hard to discern at first, but you can do it with practice. Live up those spring break days if you must, but You could play an important role in her life, and teach her how lovely a LTR can be. Its expensive, time consuming, heart wrenching and horrible for children and most normal people actually dont want to put themselves nor their families through it if they can help it. o___O #dead Now those are some REAL double standards.com! Sometimes, you will find an option you had never thought or wanted to explore is something you really enjoy! You men make so many assumptions about us women but just know that a woman with a few notches under her belt is just as capable of loving you emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically like any other woman. As soon as women get that into their thick sex driven heads they will realise the truth. I totally agree! Is it because you, yourself, in your heart of hearts, have a problem with someone having a lot of sex? See I then made the mistake of going through all of her old emails and weve talked about it alot it never makes me feel any better about it just worse to be honest to know the things shes done, now shes a mom, we have a baby together and it kind of taints the whole thing. It is about not judging a woman based on her past number of partners. Only to then change the number 2 more times from 13 to the final number now which is 15 and me being the 16th. The only men who have sexual power would be BILLIONARES and FAMOUS men.thats IT. But until men realize that the more you all make advances towards us irregardless of what we declare we want, the more you promote promiscuity among your male circles, the more you all support the media that supports the sexual exploitation and objectification of women, then the more youll see women sleeping with a bunch of different men. Im also comfortable with myself and my happiness is not determined by whether or not I have a partner. At least that is how I understand it and I agree. I sure don't. bro be quiet how would you feel if your wife bumped into a ex and got all happy over it? Correct me if I'm wrong:), You are concerned that the girl you like has slept with a lot of guys, maybe in excess and this really worries you. I am 31 years Hi Stephan, I dont see where you think I was insulting others. Past is in the past? insert kylo ren meme here. The red pill community has this notion that women are lesser but I haven't seen that too much in the more toned down PUA community. Evaluate that person for who they are now, not who they were previously. Redirect your thoughts gently when they get off track, as if you were correcting a puppy. But I hope u find the great guy tho. I thought that sex was the only thing guys wanted from me and without that they would just leave or get it somewhere else. Now, I know you didnt use any of these words. it just kills me that women be the main one judging other women. Wow, so many issues with your post. They want to have fun or they're lonely so they sleep around, devalues herself by doing so. This was probably written by a hoe. pregnant with other males children, if given the choice. I love people who stand their ground and see things in black and white, right and wronglife is easiest for them. Would you still judge her as nothing more than a whore or was she simply a victim of a horrible act and didnt know or wasnt able to get the help to properly handle it. I dont think its for me to judge anyone. Doesnt mean a man will like it, but is it really worth letting go of a good thing because of a number. You cannot truly understand or know a person until you know just about everything. enjoy has lead to a downward spiral in the family, out of control divorce Marriage is a serious commitment intended to last a lifetime. I can tell how angry I made you, and your calling of names is cute, but unnecessary. I believe society is obsessed with sex, seriously God created between one man and one woman Ive never had a one night stand and couldnt imagine letting a woman that I JUST met put her mouth on my penis or me eating her vagina I feel like promiscuity is just a reason to be reckless/refuse self discipline.. She told me that she thought sleeping around was dangerous and that she wanted to wait until marriage. If she isnt what you need her to be currently, then of course keep it moving. Its like seeing a movie, all is in the past. You could be killing yourselves with every partner you take. Here are a few other things many married women do but . I understand how her situation was as best I can and I should be totally forgiving. I dont play the who slept with who game. I agree. Statistics do not lie. Even in cases where there was once a connection, it is in my opinion that the inability to stay connected comes from a lack of effective communication. Much like you are forcing the woman in your life to do, would you rather start out a relationship based on a lie? I really do agree that the double standard about sex partners is ridiculous. Numbers mean nothing. Good, glad to know my position is clear. No two people are the same and regardless of what you may think, you dont ever know EVERYTHING there is to know about anyone. Yea I had a 3some with best friend and a dude we barely knew in college. Stings don't it? People please keep in mind, God made Average for a reason. Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. Dont assume her personality/morality based on her sexual history. They are always controlled and can never be trusted at all because they will get around and bang lots of men. I have always been happy go lucky and respectful of myself. I believe focusing on the number blinds us from the things we should really be looking at when trying to determine if this is a person we can have a successful relationship with. Look into the galena rhoades study. And people who are so quick to judge others usually have some self-esteem issues. A couple of reasons for promiscuity, and a couple of examples. Guys in sports, entertainment and the military normally are cheaters. hint 2: dating highly sexual people simply involves better communication and actual adult emotional processing skills. The only position here is dont let the past stop you from receiving and embracing your blessings. Ive already had my experiences with other lovers and hes better than all of those other men put together!! Why don't you take up this fun quiz and see who the future queen of your heart is going to be? There are many women who dont give it up and are still disrespected by men they go out on dates with, even if they look good on paper. Copyright The Student Room 2023 all rights reserved. Clap , Clap , Clap.. Mainly because I got tired of men judging me. So, somebody who has raped a person years agoshouldnt have that counted againstthem because that isnt who they really are now? Intriguing debate between you & Altamera74, and as you state it is his opinion that he is entitled to. The fact is that how I have decided to look at my wife is not an issue within myself I look at her in the way she has represented herself to me if she has misrepresented and has been sleeping around she just built a lie around her and I have looking to a fake picture of the reality. Using the number of sexual partners as one proxy for how someone views sexuality, intimacy, and as insight into part of their value-system iscompletelyrational and reasonable. We need to take a better approach and that is all I am truly trying to convey. Encourage people to better themselves? I lost my virginity to a girl who had been with lots of guys before me. And because women economically couldnt take care of themselves and would have been shunned by their communities, women were forced to stay in their marriage. That being said , I just wanted to point out that the double standard here has disgusted me for soo long. Think its unfair? I hope you come in awareness. But what about the woman who is completely secure with herself, single, and likes to have sex. Its a selfish attempt to keep a woman to yourself even if you dont have feelings for her, you want her to keep her pussy tight. It seems that its not the case. I don't see any way that telling her my feelings about this ends well. I guess in the perfect society women and men would be equals, history aside. So shes had a lot of partners at the same time in the past- if everyone in the situation knew what was up (that there was no expectation of monogamy), then theres no harm to it! I dated a woman most wouldn't consider a beauty, but she was smart and funny and great in bed. When we dont heal from our past and address our issues we will likely set ourselves up fro more problems later. Official University of the Arts London 2023 Applicants Thread, Official University of Bristol 2023 Applicant Thread, Official Imperial College 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Thread, Sutton Trust US Programme Cohort 12 (2023) Applicants Thread. Im in it right now. That they must pay the price of their previous mistake (choice) and who they once were is how I will judge them today. Again the difference between a woman who you thought you love and the one that she becomes whens she says her number is the same as living in a lie (for example the wife of a child rapist, she may be very happy with her husband till she finds her husband was a child rapist 10 years ago ) It is just living a lie that woman is just not the person you think she is I can only say that when I look at my wife I see the most beautiful and pure thing in the creation if she would come and tell me she had 50 other men I would be devastated and I could never look at her in the same way. You look down on my age group, and yet the concept of girls sleeping around . Trust me I completely understand that most of us would prefer our partners didnt have active sex lives prior to being with us. you know like people. Lets be serious. Women can sleep with men to get what they want and then dump them. Youve literally dated so much that your idea of a great person is flawed. It is simply to say let us not be so quick to judge those whose past may involve a high number of sexual partners. Most often it takes more than two relationships to find your life partner. The number doesn't matter if you are a strong and confident alpha. At the end of the day none of those could capture her heart as you have. I have yet to meet a woman that has had more than 50 sex partners and was in a solid, healthy, balanced, loving relationship. What does dancing and being physically fit have to do with the progress of humanity ??? Nothing wrong with that. 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